How to attract a Ukrainian girl
It so happened that I was born in a country where real feminine beauty is not a fairy tale myth. It’s an ordinary fact. Being a woman myself I completely agree with the idea that Ukrainian girls are among the most beautiful in the world. Why so ?…Because I see dozens of them every day of my life ! 🙂 Ukrainian women have been sought for as wives and lovers for centuries and nowadays foreign men continue coming to Ukraine in the hopes of finding a true love they couldn’t find at home. And let’s face the truth: there are hundreds of happy international marriages. Probably, you even know some of such stories or know in person successfully-married-to-a-Ukrainian-lady western men.
Now, let me point out some extremely valuable tips for all the foreign men who are willing to marry a Ukrainian lady and make her the most beloved and desired woman on the Earth.
- be cared, well-mannered & gallant
There is just an enormous lack of gentlemen among Ukrainian men. Given the demography prevalence of women in Ukraine, Ukrainian men don’t have to try so hard. (Though many of them really do). Take it as an advantage and go ahead! Impress her! You know how, a real western gentleman, don’t you!
- be fit & healthy
I must admit that most of the Western men, especially men after their 50s, look absolutely stunning as for the men of their age. They try to eat healthily and exercise regularly to stay fit as long as possible. Those who don’t, please start!
- dress presentably & neat
Unfortunately, I‘ve met so many foreign men who were absolutely careless about this really important moment. A sloppy appearance is almost standard in some western countries, but it is generally looked down upon in Ukraine. Of course, your outfit shouldn’t be trendy & fashionable ( though it’s a perfect match 🙂. But it shouldn’t be baggy, oversized & old fashioned as well.
It is also desirable that items of clothes should match in colors, textures & style. There must be no old oily stamps on your clothes, worn-out & shabby footwear; no greasy hair and dirt under the fingernails. I think you already noticed how much attention Ukrainian girls (and men as well, by the way) pay to their outfit. Especially in big cities like Kiev, Odessa, Kharkiv, Dnipropetrovsk, Lviv etc. So, please be ready not to lose face!
- be sincere & interested
Make your lady feel comfortable by being honest (as much as you can), share your thoughts, ideas, plans with her. Be interested in her life. I mean – really interested 🙂 Ask her to tell about her hobbies, dreams, plans, aims. What is she fond of? Who are her friends? Does she have sisters or brothers? What music does she listen to? What films and actors does she like? Of course, these are not topics for discussion during the first date, but each next time when you meet her, just try to ask her and listen attentively. She will highly appreciate it, for sure.
- be persistent, confident & composed
Ukrainian ladies highly evaluate these originally male traits. As, traditionally, they are brought up with the idea that “a husband is a rock”. Our women prefer natural leaders, men who make the decisions. Those who never give up and preserve a sense of dignity in any situation
- be humorous.
Firstly, it will add charm to your personality. Secondly, it will help you to smooth over misunderstandings of the difference in mentality. Ukrainians rarely smile in public and it’s not because they have no sense of humor, but because they do not usually smile without a reason. In Ukraine, it’s not appropriate to smile to strangers. If a Ukrainian lady meets somebody’s glance, she will usually just look back, but rarely smile. Anyway, come and make sure that Ukrainians are extremely heartwarming and hospitable people once you get to know them closer!
- don’t seem desperate or preoccupied with sex
Quite often I notice how foreigners desperately wander from one nightclub to another, they obscenely stare at every beautiful girl but generally attract attention only of those who sell their love for one night (you know what I mean). But what about normal girls? “ Are there any normal girls ?” or “Why do they ignore me?!” – complain, foreigners. So please, just realize that for an average normal Ukrainian lady such impudent and kinky staring is offensive. You may look at her side from time to time and smile. But do not put off the moment of acquaintance to the end of the evening. Firstly, you may be too late. And secondly, she may start thinking that you are a loser, an unconfident strange foreign dude.
Be confident, smile, flirt, make jokes and keep that playful look in your eyes!