How to attract a Ukrainian girl
It so happened that I was born in a country where real feminine beauty is not a fairy tale myth. It’s an ordinary fact. Being a woman myself I completely agree with the idea that Ukrainian girls are among the most beautiful in the world. Why so? Because I see dozens of them every day )
Ukrainian women have been sought for as wives and lovers for centuries and nowadays foreign men continue coming to Ukraine in the hopes of finding a true love they couldn’t find at home. And let’s face the truth: there are hundreds of happy international marriages these days. Probably, you even know some of such stories or know in person successfully-married-to-a-Ukrainian-lady Westerners.
Now, let me point out some extremely valuable tips for all the foreign men who are willing to marry a Ukrainian and make her the most beloved and desired woman on the Earth.
- be well-groomed, well-mannered & gallant
There is just a great lack of gentlemen among Ukrainian men. Given the demography prevalence of women in Ukraine, Ukrainian men don’t have to try so hard (though many of them really do). Take it as an advantage and go ahead. Impress her with your gallant and caring manners.
- be fit & healthy
In Ukraine over the past three years, the number of people engaged in various sports has increased by almost 2 million. Especially you can observe this sports tendency in Kyiv. Mostly all sport- clubs are overcrowded.
I must admit that many Western men, look absolutely stunning as for the men of their age. They try to eat healthily and exercise regularly to stay fit as long as possible. Those who don’t, please start.
- dress presentable & neat
Unfortunately, I‘ve met many foreign men who were absolutely careless about this really important moment. A sloppy appearance is almost standard in some Western countries, but it is generally looked down upon in Ukraine. Of course, your outfit mustn’t be all the fashion, funky or haute couture. But it shouldn’t be baggy, oversized and old fashioned as well.
There must be no old oily stamps on your clothes, worn-out and shabby footwear; no greasy hair and dirt under the fingernails. I think you already noticed how much attention Ukrainian girls (and men as well, by the way) pay to their outfit. Especially in big cities like Kyiv, Odessa, Kharkiv, Dnipropetrovsk, Lviv etc. So, please be ready not to lose face.
- be sincere & interested
Make your lady feel comfortable by being honest (as much as you can), share your thoughts, ideas, plans with her. Be interested in her life. I mean – really interested 🙂 Ask her to tell about her hobbies, dreams, plans, aims. What is she fond of? Who are her friends? Does she have sisters or brothers? What music does she listen to? What films and actors does she like?
Of course, these are not topics for discussion during the first date, but each next time when you meet her, just try to ask her and listen attentively. She will highly appreciate it.
- be confident & composed
Ukrainian women highly evaluate these originally male traits. As, traditionally, they are brought up with the idea that “a husband is a rock”. They prefer natural leaders, men who make the decisions. Those who never give up and preserve a sense of dignity in any situation.
- be humorous
Firstly, it will add charm to your personality. Secondly, it will help you to smooth over misunderstandings of the difference in mentality. Ukrainians rarely smile in public, and it’s not because they have no sense of humor, but because it’s not customary to smile at strangers.
If a Ukrainian lady meets somebody’s glance, she will usually just look back, but rarely smile. Anyway, come and make sure that Ukrainians are extremely heartwarming and hospitable people once you get to know them closer.
- be positive
Ukrainian women find an impudent and kinky staring is offensive. If you noticed the girl you like, try to look at her side from time to time and smile. Be confident, flirt, make jokes, and keep that playful look in your eyes. But do not put off the moment of acquaintance to the end of the evening.